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    I find bridge very enjoyable 
    but I get discouraged that I keep making silly mistakes. What have you to 
    advise someone to  improve their basic skills?
 
    You ask a great question 
    that's challenging to answer.  First, it's wise to make a candid assessment 
    of your strengths and weaknesses, considering the phases of the game: 
    Hand evaluation
 Bidding, non-competitive and competitive
 
 Play, declarer and defender
 
    Of course, tactics, strategy, 
    analysis, memory, and other factors are important facets of the game.  Some 
    players seem to have a great "table feel" while others require more work at 
    their game to get it right.  Emerging players read books, get help from 
    better players, teachers, and even helpful opponents.  Drills can also be 
    useful, which are available in many formats (printed pages, flash cards, 
    video tapes, etc). 
    Many newer players struggle 
    with anxiety, primarily based on a lack of confidence. Self confidence is an 
    important attribute to playing at one's peak, especially in a competitive 
    environment. Too many novices seem to "throw the cards" (without careful 
    thought, preplanning, and concentration) -- these become bad habits also 
    leading to careless play. 
    Discipline is important, too. 
    After a hand is over, put it out of your mind and focus on the new hand. 
     Don't become distracted by sidebar discussions.   Top Bridge pros seldom 
    discuss a hand after play; they are entirely focused on the next hand.   A 
    prankster once employed a female stripper to make a surprising side show 
    while the Bridge pro Terrence Reese was at the table, who completely ignored 
    the “external environment” – now that’s concentration!
 Here's a secret bonus tip that may help you. Before bidding or playing a 
    card, do a double check this way - choose the bid or play and then imagine 
    that you are a teacher or kibitzer looking over your shoulder. Is the player 
    (actually you) making the best move?   Why did "they" (you) choose one 
    option versus another?   Are “they” getting the big picture or only seeing 
    things from their own perspective.
 
    I've seen top bridge teachers 
    and world-class playing professions literally follow this to an extreme. 
    Before playing a card, they will sometimes detach it from the rest of their 
    suit holdings (let's say 4 Hearts) and move the card to the other side of 
    their hand - sitting by itself next to a black suit. The top player will 
    then reassess their play, ensuring that it is correct. 
    Below is an extract from the “r.g.b.” 
    online Bridge discussion group: 
 
    The excellent advice provided by others 
    has tended to focus on mental issues.  Don't forget the physiological side 
    of things. If you don't maintain your blood-sugar level during the course of 
    the game, you'll be tired and out-of-focus by the end. Having a small snack 
    about one-third of the way through the game is a good way to avoid this 
    problem. 
 
    Teach yourself to breathe deeply as you 
    play. It allows you to relax and better manage the high metabolism state 
    required to sustain concentration and reduce the nervous side effects of 
    adrenaline.  In addition to relaxing your body, it will slow you down a 
    fraction of a second while making critical decisions, giving your entire 
    pattern matching apparatus room to join in the decision. Finally, your tempo 
    will become more relaxed and less jerky, which is a common attribute of 
    tough players.  After you have worked on this for a while, you can ask 
    yourself "am I ready to act or do I need to think some more?" and trust the 
    answer. 
 
    I can't tell you how to eliminate these 
    lapses, but Bob Hamman is the player best known for having very few of them. 
    And he thinks that a major factor is just 
    moving on. Don't talk about the last hand -- don't even think about it. It's 
    over. 
    Meckstroth and Rodwell have the same idea. 
    It's spooky to kibitz them because they don't do any of the things that are 
    a part of virtually every player's habits.  No "Sorry, I'm light a few 
    points". No "good luck". No "Sorry, I mis-played it".  When they have one of 
    their rare misunderstandings, they discuss it after the session. 
    They're firmly in the here and now. All 
    top players can summon up that kind of concentration, but most don't do so 
    all of the time. 
    Good habits to cultivate, if very tough to 
    follow through on.  
 
    1) Mental stamina is important, and 
    requires just as much build-up as physical stamina. The latter aids the 
    former. The MTV generation has short attention spans. 
    2) Don't spend too much time analyzing 
    hands during the session. You may only have so much gas in the tank and you 
    may come up empty short of the finish line. Do you really have to "know the 
    truth" NOW, or can it wait?  I suspect many do it so that they can look like 
    an expert to others (and to themselves as well). 
    3) Don't become too upset about any poor 
    result. Much anguish is an attempt to distance oneself from blame for the 
    outcome. The next board is the first hand of the rest of your life. Don't 
    fall on your sword over the reversals that we ALL have. It's just a violent 
    form of denial. 
    4) You said you had envisioned the end 
    position, but failed to execute it when you got there. Learn to develop 
    stations within the hand where you stop and reevaluate earlier plans, based 
    on new info. For instance, after the no-trumper shows up with 16 HCP, maybe 
    you should stop taking hooks through him. Sounds silly, but you must 
    reappraise earlier assumptions. 
    5) Whenever you find yourself unsure, make 
    sure you have an answer for why you make the next play. If you don't have a 
    plan, don't play the next card!  Many get stressed by the situation and just 
    play a card to stop the pain.  One of the best lessons I ever got was going 
    through books of single dummy problems, learning that I could not play the 
    next card until I had allowed for all the possible eventualities. 
    6) Perspective check - from time to time 
    it is useful to stop and ask if there is another construct which may fit all 
    the facts. Just because events fall into your anticipation, it doesn't mean 
    that another layout doesn't deserve consideration. If there is a marked 
    difference, ask yourself what has happened or can happen that would point to 
    one over the other. 
    7) Realize that whenever "something" 
    happens at the table, or in the room that breaks your concentration, you 
    must get that mantle back before you proceed. If you are commenting about 
    the distraction, you are obviously still distracted. Banter with your 
    opponents can make for a most enjoyable session, but if you can't focus 
    properly, your poor result will offset your pleasant exchange. No good 
    player would ever take offense if you politely asked for the talk to stop so 
    you could concentrate. |